sympathetic

[i know i'm gonna sound like a totally different person. erm.. no comment about it, just that i feel sympathetic for this friend of mine. read it if you wish! =) and if i offended anybody, i'm sorry, but that's how i feel about this situation ]

you know how those boys who are nice, caring, good looking and practically understands everything about you is so darn hard to find and apparently i think that its one in a trillion or maybe even a zillion in this world. i thought these kind of guys only exist is those lovey-dovey novels or those drama series. little did i know that i would actually have one of this kind of guys as a friend. -.-

when i first knew him, i never thought he would be ermm.. boyfriend material. but after some time, i was entirely speechless. he understands his girlfriend like the back of his hand. her schedules, her behavior, her attitude (its sucks, seriously) and he compromises every time although she's obviously in the wrong and he is NOT!

but she, aduei~ make me so so so speechless. he makes an effort to find her everyday (being in different schools), (if i am not mistaken) he settles her lunch, her dinner and her transportation for almost everyday. when she needs him, he'll be right there on the spot without fail. giving her surprises every once in a while just so she wont feel so stressed. frankly speaking, since he has been doing this for some time already, i think she cant live without him. -.- BUT, what did she do? over small, insy-teensy tiny little matter (which i dont find a problem at all), break up with him. says that he is selfish (he's not working yet, where can he get his income?), says that he doesnt care about her (he obeys EVERYTHING [when i say everything, I MEAN EVERYTHING] she says, what else does she want?), she also said that he should put aside his things to accompany her (hello, he needs his space too, you know?!). there's a lot more, i dont know where to continue anymore. all so UNREASONABLE! ish!

i really feel so bad for my friend. he did so much for her and yet this was what he got back in return. why cant she appreciate him more? she even said that its his duty to be like that. he didnt call her for a night (due to hp battery low) and she was angry for a few days! what kind of life is this? -.- if i am the guy, to the max, i can only put up with her for a month or two. definitely no longer than 3 months. when i tried to reason it out with my friend, he even covered up for her saying it was his fault and she was right. he should have yada yada yada. i was thinking, she use guna-guna on him or what? KDK! (kdk = ketawa dengan kuat)

i would NEVER to that. as much as i hate being tied up in a cage or limited space, i wont want the people around me to feel the same. its a nauseating feeling and it doesnt work! please lar, rational a bit can or not? grrr.. buei tahan these people. he must fulfill your requirements, but you? you said he shouldnt say anything even if you didnt fulfill what he wants. that's more like an employer and an employee.

to X, go learn and appreciate what you have. honestly, dont be so bossy and dont ask for so much out of him. he's human too! -.-