it all comes to me now. .

i dont know, i never thought of it this way..
today, i read a book
(actually this book is fiction and about fantasies),
but i actually learnt some things from this book..
i think not many will have heard of this book,
its name is INKHEART..
(that's not really important)

the main thing i want to say is,
according to a character in this book,
"fear devours everything"
even if you have rehearsed,
or you have it set in your mind,
once you are afraid,
all is gone..

and come to think of it,
many people are actually 'applying' that concept in their lives..
for examples of fear is the fear of losing something to our friends,
the fear of being left behind,
the fear of being underestimated,
and so many more..

all these 'fear' can actually make people forget who they are,
it tarnishes the conscience of one,
for one is willing to do anything, even betrayal,
so that one will not be left behind and will be accepted..
these fear are really the trouble that's happening around us..
some think they are doing the right thing to be accepted,
but actually it is wrong, so wrong..
this is an act of a selfish person..
an act which will make others hate him/her more..

one should not portray this kind of fear..
we should tolerate and cooperate,
one who puts on a one-man-show will end up regretting..
learn to accept who others are,
learn to accept others for their suggestions,
you might find out that their ideas are better..
who knows?
also, learn to accept own flaws,
nobody is prefect,
we are who we are,
no matter how we change our outsides,
or how we act, we are still the same on the inside..
dont be greedy for things that will make us lose or treasures,
which is our valued friends, family and our self~!

now i understand why people are jealous,
because of their fear..
fear devours everything,
this means it will lead them to do the wrong things. . . .

[p.s this is a note-to-self (means for me),
and also as a reminder to all my friends]